Being "cool" is a trend that is gaining momentum... What is being cool? In the society we live in, this is perceived so differently that "cool" is confused with "grumpiness and arrogance".
We are a Muslim society. Beliefs and the dimension experienced are personal to the individual. But we are a society raised with the culture of "smile is charity".
Arrogance (there may be other underlying reasons) stems from lack of self-confidence. People who experience this situation constantly strive to show themselves off. In fact, they constantly try to prove themselves because they see themselves as worthless. They are not aware of the situation they are in. In today's parlance, they describe themselves as "cold-blooded".
There is a psychology that we call arrogant human psychology; It is a dark and corrupt mood. The inner world of these people who are in a state of pride and delusion; It is a pitch black world, full of stress, fears, intricate calculations, and a mind full of small and intimate negotiations. Such an emotional state wears the person out and negatively affects their mental health.
Human facial expressions somehow take on that psychology. A cheerful person has a very positive mood, and a sullen person has a very pessimistic mood. Pouting has become fashionable. Unconscious people are trying to impose a more "sexy perception". We are becoming more intolerant people. This situation tires and wears out not only you but also the people around you.
To summarize briefly; Arrogance and pride is a hill, the more you climb, the lower you go; humility is a pit, the more you descend, the higher you go.
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