Today, I would like to tell you about the points you need to pay attention to for a positive and healthy relationship with your child. Many times, “What should I do?” ”, “I have a child who is not happy no matter what I do.”, “I cannot improve my relationship with my child.” I came across mothers and fathers who said sentences like: So what should we do?
1-) Try to understand your children's feelings. Let him express his feelings and thoughts so that you can understand. Don't judge their behavior. Now I want you to step into your child's shoes for a minute. Imagine having a parent who tries to silence you when you cry and always stops you when you want to run or jump. This will be quite difficult.
2-) I have great faith that love has a healing power. Show your children and make them feel that you love them. Research shows that hugging and love have great benefits for human health. Show your love. Believe me, there will be no point in keeping this inside.
3-) Don't overdo it with your expectations. Appreciate their successes and be there for their failures. Let your love be unconditional, not based on the child's success. Know that there are things he cannot do as well as things he can do. In other words, while he does some things very well, he may do some things very badly, be aware of this.
4-) Do not compare his success, failure, behavior, feelings and thoughts with other children. Remember, every person is special. Make your child feel that he/she is special.
5-) When your child asks you for something, do not respond positively or negatively without explaining the reason. In this way, the child will establish a cause and effect relationship and will know why his wish was fulfilled or not.
6-) Stand behind the reward or punishment you gave the child after his behavior. Don't make promises you can't keep. Be determined and consistent.
7-) When the child behaves wrongly, explain that his behavior is wrong instead of his personality.
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