Let me tell you the answer right away: the first child. Isn't an only child the first child anyway? Concentrating all the attention of the parents on one child overwhelms the child and prevents his/her healthy development. Anger and anxiety caused by the positive behavior of the parents, which the child cannot complain about, can cause diseases in the long term.
Example from life: A very beautiful girl, 24-25 years old, highly educated. Her education provided her with a well-earning job, a worthy boyfriend, and doting parents. What else do you think people want from life? It was a nightmare for the young girl, who completed her master's degree abroad, to return to Turkey with her parents. People don't look for things they don't see, but they miss things they taste. When it comes to FREEDOM, the rebellion in your soul is unbearable. I write that the most striking statement of this beautiful lady should be an example for parents who behave like this: "I can never decide how much of the food on my plate I eat, they interfere with everything I do." The client, who was 2 years old when his mother separated from his biological father, met his father, who raised him, when his mother remarried. . The father who raised her loves her so much that he does not want a child from his own blood, even though she is very young. Just in case she thinks I love her more, she gets upset. He was raised with highly educated, high-income parents who were very protective of him. In today's conditions, young parents who retired early may ask, "Where did you stay last night?" Where are you going? ' He was so fed up with the questions and the violation of his personal boundaries that he could not tell this to his family.
Result; I told him to get a dog for his family, and he did. When she came back 1.5 years later to stop her medication, she had already gotten married, regained her freedom, managed not to let her husband set her limits, and became a happy young woman. Their 1.5-year-old dog was such a blessing to his parents that he was quite surprised. I was surprised that the young couple went to their mother every weekend for the dog they missed so much and wanted the dog for themselves. My new suggestion was for the young couple to buy themselves a puppy.
Let's not take the spoon away from our children, if you spill it, they will get the incompetent message and their self-confidence will be damaged. At what time, what and where the child will eat Parents can decide, but the child should decide "how much" to eat. Squeezing his nose and pouring it into his mouth will harm both the child's self-confidence and his body. Ultimately, this attitude is the reason for young people receiving obesity treatment today. Definition of good parents; It is not the one who feeds his child best, loves him the most, leaves the most money, or educates him the most, but the one who RAISES CHILDREN WHO CAN STAND ON THEIR OWN FEET.
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