Adolescence is one of the most challenging periods for parents. Now he is neither a child nor an adult. They become overly touchy, shut themselves in their rooms; they shout that they want to be free, they lock their doors; they gain more and more autonomy but are not very good at organizing; they reason very wisely on one subject, but act irresponsibly and inconsistently on another subject.
The period of needing parental care is over. Gone are the years when we devoted ourselves to protecting them and taking them to the park. While it was very popular in the past, it is difficult to be ignored now.
Even though the period of dependency on us is over, the Aegeans need the safety net we have created for them. If we are not with them physically and spiritually, they will panic. They do not want to show their needs to us. In fact, their priority is their friends. However; we should not take this rejection of us personally by our children; The most important thing is the relationship between us.
Regular family activities such as game tournaments played jointly in the family, creativity-based competitions organized at family tables and allowing family members to distract their minds, and sportive activities carried out together, whether in adolescence or adulthood, we establish with our child. It allows us to strengthen the bond.
We should try to adjust our schedule so that we can spend time alone with each of our children. Moreover, we can both show our love and feel their love for us, not only physically, but in every sense. is love. The best way to show our love is to make them feel that we are with them instead of standing in front of them
We don't need to do anything to love; We just have to be with them!
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