Is it really a Goal or a Wish and a Desire?

Setting a target for the future of young people who take their steps on the long journey of life during school years has an important role in increasing their desire to work for that purpose. People with goals know what they want and shape their lives accordingly and fulfill their responsibilities. Working without setting a goal, on the other hand, will cause you to think that the motivation you started working for ends after a while because you do not know what you want.

As Montaigne said, “No wind can help a ship without a target”. You have to set your goal so that you can plan what you need to do to reach that goal and act accordingly. If you don't know a plan and what you want to do, nothing you do will make you happy and after a while you will drift like a ship without a sail. This is a very productive and important time period for this process.

So what is the target and how is it determined? What I really want is a goal or a wish or a wish? , If you ask what the goal should be, it should be as "I want to win A university and B department instead of I want to win a university." You should have goals and motivate you to lead the life you want. Setting goals is a skill and to gain this skill; you need to know what you want from life and for this you must first know yourself and know what you want, what you can do and what aspects you need to develop for your goal.

Another important point is that the goals are concrete and clear, for example, I want to be successful but which I want to be successful in this subject and what I need to do should be stated concretely and clearly.

You have known yourself to set your goals, you have set them concretely and clearly, and now you need to set a time for yourself to reach your goals. Determining how soon you can reach your goal does not allow you to delay, you determine the time and shape your plans accordingly. You will be. >When you constantly check your target plan, make necessary corrections, determine what you need to take a break to reach your goals, and most importantly, after you have confidence, there will be no obstacles for you to reach your goals.

In summary; know yourself, set your goals, create the schedule, divide it into parts, and most importantly, be confident…

With my best regards

Education and Family Counselor Tuba Özdemir

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