Feeling good, always wanting to feel good every day... believing that you will feel good by wearing that brand, believing that you will feel good only if you get that promotion, thinking that it will be okay only if you go to that university, feeling good by spending a lot of money, feeling good by just living in that neighborhood to feel, to believe that you will not be a provincial when you live in that city, to feel good by eating only from organic markets; Fighting with yourself to feel good... that insidious feeling of worthlessness in all your efforts to feel good... feeling good comes by embracing yourself with all your emotions and states. While the mill that rotates with carrying water is in need of a drop of water; You grow yourself by embracing yourself in every way you can. The balance of nature is based on acceptance, not feeling good. Start accepting from yourself; Just as you accept nature as it is.
IS NOT MY BRAIN?
"I had to make a decision. I gathered the board of directors of my brain. And then I looked and saw who had come? Mother, father, Husband/wife, mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother, uncle, aunt, sister-in-law, sister-in-law... whoever you call, we have quite a team. Did I call them?! Did they come themselves?! A hum, a noise... what? I understood what was being said, I did not realize my needs, nor could I participate in the decision-making process. I realized that I had become a messenger! My voice is not heard in my own brain, in my own board of directors! I-uh, I didn't like this scenario, isn't the brain mine? I changed the scenario. I dispersed the board, I was set up in my brain. I ordered a cup of coffee and started thinking. If I need it, maybe I will consult someone else, but I will make the final decision."
Who sits on your board of directors?
ROLES
How did motherhood and womanhood become sacred? Why were only these two sacred when they had other roles in life? No ordinary human child is sacred, no role is sacred. What is sacred is not allowed to make mistakes. When the Holy One makes a mistake, it creates a tremendous disappointment. But mothers can make mistakes. A mother is just a mother, with her mistakes, flaws, some subjects she is incompetent in, her tiredness, laziness and failure; He neither has a magic wand, nor is he a superhero, nor is he perfect, nor is he holy. Sometimes he has permission and right to rest, to be flawed, to be incompetent. A mother is someone who does her best and does what she knows is best. ir. A mother is only "like herself".
KEY CONFLICT
When a naive person looks at a straightforward person, he sees rudeness. From the perspective of the straightforward person, this is frankness.
Your beloved is always polite and naive under all circumstances. If you live with a straightforward person, know that he/she does not understand you enough and continues to communicate in his/her own way. The balance of the scales goes out of balance. However, straightforwardness and politeness are two ends of the scale, and both should be in equal amounts: Polite enough/Frank enough. In order to find balance, you need to lose some directness and communicate. The straightforward person does not like this very much, in fact he is quite surprised, he does not like the new communication system, but in order for the straightforward person to shift to politeness enough, you need to switch to a different communication system.
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