Every moment we live with our wishes prevents us from living the moment. We focus so much on forgetting the people and events we want to forget that we unconsciously reinforce them and keep them fresh. Your life is yours, with its right, wrong, shortcomings and more, and you are a human being. That's why not every moment of your life can be perfect, just like you. You must accept that a perfect, always happy and peaceful life is not possible. Knowing that we can make mistakes, other people can make mistakes, and that this happens in our existence changes our perspective on events, people, and life in general. Living knowing this protects us from the captivity of our what-ifs.
Maybe you trusted someone too much or had to trust them. Maybe despite all the sacrifices you have made, your value has not been appreciated. Maybe you have many moments when you could not defend your rights and remained silent. Maybe you've brought the wrong people into your life. Maybe you chose a profession that is not suitable for you. Maybe you just wanted to follow the path of your emotions... So, did these experiences that you saw as regrets add no beauty to you? Hasn't it ever caused anything good? Didn't it teach us anything about life?
Even though what we experience hurts us and drags us down paths we don't want, life doesn't protect us with only its negative aspects, as you might think. Of course, after every difficulty, beauty and ease appear. Can we notice these beauties, do we want to see them? Can we take credit for what happened? What caused this? Was it in my control or did it develop outside of my will? Can we draw a road map for ourselves on how to repair my life and myself?
Everything we lose reminds us of the value of what we have. It makes us realize the many blessings we still have, the existence and importance of which we are grateful for. That's why every loss you experience adds maturity to you. As long as we can be patient and look at the events from all aspects.
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