TREATMENT OF SEXUAL RELIEF
In order to evaluate sexual reluctance as a problem, it is first necessary to specify the standards at which sexual desire is normal. There is no common concept about this in the literature. The most reasonable interpretation can be considered as "the absence or insufficient formation of material, an attractive partner, fantasy and sexual interest that can stimulate sexual desire." >
Classification of Sexual Reluctance
1- Chronic Reluctance
It started in the developmental age and still continues.
2- Lack of Sexual Reluctance Occurring in the Process
Although there was no sexual problem for a period of time, the reluctance such as decreasing or disappearing in these desires develops over time and still continues.
Sexual reluctance in men and women
Men may experience reluctance more often than women. While this rate can be seen in 70% of men, it is 30% in women.
Is Sexual Reluctance Physical or Psychological?
Although it can be caused by physical reasons, it is largely psychological. It is caused by reasons.
Detection of physical findings can be done by a urologist or gynecologist, and this is usually caused by
Excessive alcohol consumption, aging and menopause, abstinence from sexuality for a long time, medications used, heart, liver. ,thyroid, high blood pressure or sugar etc. Pathological disorders will occur. The extension of these disorders also affects sexual life.
It can be said that 99% of those who apply with this problem have a psychological origin. Chief among these are; We can say that there is extreme stress, incompatibilities, vaginismus, sexual traumas, severe depression, psychiatric disorders, and conservative family structure.
What is Done in Sexual Therapies?
Both parties compromise rather than fight each other's weaknesses. First of all, it is necessary to identify the emotional and physical needs of your own body and learn to meet them on the basis of mutual SATISFACTION. Even those who have lived together for years avoid talking about sexuality. To start talking about it and bring it to your subconscious It is necessary to reformat it to be satisfied. For this purpose, energy psychology, hypnosis, subconscious suggestions, cognitive and behavioral evaluations, sexual and physical exercises and drug treatment can also be applied.
Conclusion
If there is no organic problem, I accept this situation as an "incompatibility" rather than a "disease". In order to resolve this incompatibility, I think it is right for the person to see this as a problem and to act together to solve this problem, rather than passing the responsibility to the other party.
I observe that sexual problems accompany most of the psychological problems. Sexual reluctance is one of them. When Sexual Unhappiness is resolved, many problems that have become problems cease to be "problems".
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