Life passes quickly and we are thrown from one place to another in a rush. In this hustle and bustle, perhaps it is our children who need our presence the most. The value that the time we spend with them will add to their lives is enormous. What I will write today are tips that will make these precious moments easier.
Whenever you communicate with your child, remember that these are 'unique' opportunities. Your child will not come back to the current age and time will not go back. Be aware of what he/she is offering you, his/her thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Accept what he offers you impartially and without judgment and try to look at the world through his eyes. Leave the work to be done soon and the stress of the day that tires you behind. Do not get carried away by any distracting ideas that come to your mind other than your child and what he/she is doing. Realize their creativity, their dreams, and how valuable they are to what they offer to you. Watch it. Cherish that moment and what you did. As you make it valuable and feel understood, the quality of your communication will increase. You will begin to find easier solutions to issues that challenge you and him. Understanding him/her without judgment and impartiality does not mean that you will allow every behavior. It shows the value you give to it. Try to look forward to and enjoy these communication opportunities. What you do at another time will only poison that moment. Whatever will be done in the future will be done when the time comes. The more you focus on the bites in your mouth while eating, the longer the pleasure you get. Enjoy it, thinking that communication with him is a unique meal. Give this value to your child's existence. It doesn't have to be for very long periods of time. But it's important that that moment is one where you just accept, watch, don't judge and don't give advice. This is what I understand from spending quality time. Stay in good health..
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