Man is a unique being with the way he lives and perceives them throughout his life, as well as the reactions he gives. This means that each person has a different inner world and expression. In fact, man is far beyond what he seems. The great and immortal poet Yunus Emre's determination that man is unique and unique in the universe in the line "I have a me and I contain myself" was whispered to us centuries ago. These internal rules, coping strategies, tendencies, differences in self-expression, inner and private world created by many factors are unique to him like fingerprints. This private area largely determines the person's perspective on himself and his environment. If this happens over a long period of time and repeats; In addition, if it disrupts human relations, the personality is impaired in terms of medicine and he needs to be helped in terms of getting rid of this stress.
In personality disorder, the person has problems in 3 areas and needs medical help.
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Difficulties in coping with and adapting to stress.
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Has difficulties in relating and connecting with other people.
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Experiences problems in problem solving.
If the exemplary person does not understand his/her reasons in a problem or crisis and blames his/her environment; If he does not understand the crisis or problem, the situation he is in, he will have difficulties in solving it. If the person emphasizes blaming the environment, he thinks that people treat him badly after a stage. Their relationships deteriorate and they show angry and even paranoid attitudes towards people. In this case, it leads to serious consequences in social functioning.
The person who follows the same style experiences similar difficulties when coping with stress and cannot perform effective stress management.
Life is never a monotonous flow. The social environment of the human being is different in personality, in different position, and also in different intentions. made up of people who can. Adapting to the traumas experienced, managing the crises, being flexible in dealing with them and understanding them correctly enables useful steps to be taken, problems and crises are overcome, and as a result, people gain useful experience from the experiences. Modern life has also created a social structure in which interpersonal relationships are more important. Marriage is another area of conflict in special personal duties and situations such as being a parent.
After all, there is a dynamic balance between one's relationships with other people, work performance, worldview, and inner experiences and perceptions. Disrupting this harmony and creating stress reveals that it is full of useless interaction patterns. Life crises occur when the person's inability to be the main actor in the resolution of events, being in expectation, passive and waiting style combined with impatience. Its internal order also prevents it from perceiving this crisis. It cannot produce a solution and cannot relax.
Elements effective in the formation of personality disorder
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Genetics of the person
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Biological processes
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Learning from experience
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What the society in which she lives has taught her (cultural factors)
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Traumatic situations (see the post-traumatic stress section.)
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The effects of childhood experiences
Here It should be said that there is no single cause in personality disorder and it should be remembered that people with the same internal or external conditions may have different reactions. This is about the uniqueness of each person's biology, psychology and existence.
How to understand personality problems?
The person's personality there are difficulties in human relations because of his own thoughts, emotions and behaviors. An example person's being angry, not trusting himself, not trusting people, etc., and being in conflict with his environment.
People are born with some innate characteristics. For example, their courage is different. Courage makes one curious, one seeks novelty. This is its trait feature. Don't be afraid of trouble, take risks ir. If he does not realize this trait feature of his own, he may find himself in risky situations. He may find himself doing things that other people wouldn't even dare to do. For example, while many people do not taste heroin, they taste it in line with the trait of courage and curiosity and may get used to it in the future.
Persistent unchanging traits of one's own that cause problems also mean personality problems.
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