The baby's interaction with the mother is related to the energy given by the mother. The more the mother cares for her baby, feeds him, kisses him, smells him and plays with him, the more the baby receives this interaction and the baby feels joy. That joy that emerges does not come from within the baby itself, the interaction given by the mother makes the baby joyful.
Relationships are like that too. It is about "mutual interaction". The mother's energy passes to the baby, and the baby's energy passes to the mother. The unconscious reason for marriage is to end childhood. As spouses, we all want to meet a need that was not met in our childhood, which will heal the wounds we received in our childhood.
When there is a situation that disrupts the mutual interaction with another person, anxiety begins and this situation is recorded by our brain.
When anxiety occurs, our wounds begin. What individuals need is healing the wounds, trust, connection, safe attachment and joy.
From Monologue Speech to Dialog Speech
Your partner may seem like a monster to you, but remember that there is a wounded child inside. If you go to improve your relationship it will be positive. When the existing wound heals, the relationship also heals. For this reason, we need to learn what truly listening is.
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