Many parents often state that they love their children, but while doing so, they often ignore that the child's need for love cannot be met with words. Of course, it is not wrong for them to express their loved ones, but this is not enough for the child if they always remain in words and not put into action.
What children can and cannot do varies depending on each age period. Parents need to guide their children in this regard. In recent years, mothers and fathers have been giving their children unlimited freedom in the name of improving their children's self-confidence. Later, because the children are children and they are not given proper guidance, they may take different paths, or parents begin to question more about what they did wrong, especially when their children reach adolescence. Mothers and fathers who leave the limits needed by their children too loosely are usually the ones who have not learned to be an authority. Some of the parents who cannot set the necessary limits for their children are those who grew up under strict pressure. Having strict and narrow boundaries causes the child to lack necessary guidance. In order to maintain the rules and limitations placed on children (provided, of course, that these rules and limits are logical, appropriate and not rigid), parents must also act consistently.
Good parents are those who respect their own and others' rights and in turn do this to their children. It is the parents who can vaccinate. Mothers and fathers should be able to show this situation to their children by struggling against the difficulties of life.
The fact that the child is not punished or prevented at all regarding child education is often misinterpreted. Excessive tolerance and lack of discipline cause children to behave selfishly and inconsistently in society. Considering that no one knows their children better than their parents, of course the rules and boundaries to be set will vary from child to child. We must accept that children have their own world and we must not take away their rights by saying we must be disciplined parents. Giving unlimited freedom is a good mother. It doesn't mean being an effort; since no one knows your child better than you, you need to be a good guide while raising him/her.
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