One of the most striking findings revealed by research conducted in recent years is that the relationship established with the therapist during the therapy process contributes to a significant improvement. To elaborate a little more, it may be possible for a person to re-know, define and restructure himself/herself in the context of a relationship. When we look at the basic characteristics of this relationship, it turns out that it is a relationship profile that does not judge, does not humiliate, does not scare, respects existence, accepts and approves. When we go to the first years of a baby, in the context of the mother-baby relationship, the baby needs to meet its spiritual and physiological needs, but if these needs cannot be met due to the mother, the environment or any other reason, some fractures, hang-ups or deficiencies occur in the baby's spiritual world. When this baby becomes an adult, even though it grows physically, it remains at that age spiritually. In other words, we are actually faced with a spiritual baby that looks like an adult. This baby resorts to various ways to compensate for the needs that are not met by the mother. These ways may or may not work from time to time. If the person is not aware of it, and most people are unaware of it, they suppress their needs and try to ignore them. But when these needs become unbearable, they communicate with us in some ways. This sometimes manifests itself as depression, sometimes as obesity, sometimes as alcohol addiction, sometimes as sexual disorders (the list goes on). In other words, these problems with psychogenic sub-origin are trying to tell us something. When a person feels that he has reached his spiritual peak, he embarks on a quest. The final result of this search leads to psychotherapy. In this sense, psychotherapy aims to identify the spiritual stage in which the person is stuck, meet the needs of that stage, and enable the person to move on to the next stage and complete his spiritual development. We can call psychotherapy the rebirth of the soul. The safe relationship that the therapist establishes with the patient during the painful and painful side of this birth makes Psychotherapy healing. Again, when we go to the baby's first years, we can say that self-definition and self-activation occur through a relationship. The baby feels the caregiver's (mother's) looks, behavior, speech, touch defines through lines. In other words, it creates itself through the mother. Psychotherapy also allows the person to exist in the context of a relationship similar to this first relationship. We can call psychotherapy rebirth. If we compare the therapy room to a mother's womb, the person rebirths himself there. After this birth, the person's self-definition, definition of life and definition of the people around him/her find meaning, change and heal again.
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