People inherit their "life scenario" from previous generations and embrace it as if it were their own destiny. It is also very common to feel and experience physical illnesses of the family members we replace. Our desire to learn and implement the values of the social group we belong to is directly linked to our instinct for survival. The real underlying fear is social isolation and rejection for both ourselves and our children. Rejection means death in the background, even if the person is not aware of it. Our mother, father, ancestors are our connection with life. How we feel about them is how we feel about life. They represent our source in the physical dimension and we all know this in some way. Whether its effect is positive or negative, this understanding touches everyone deeply.
The basic principle of all personal maturation and individual development studies is to reveal and accept whatever is rejected and excluded in the personality, making room for them in the heart. Likewise, family members who were excluded in previous generations need to be included in the family, recognized and remembered with love. The essence of this principle is that what we reject has great power as long as it is rejected. Our effort to reject causes the rejected to become stronger and follow us. What we think is a ghost haunts us, gaining strength from our belief that it is a ghost. The fear passes when we discover that it is a spider web swinging in the wind. Once we say "yes" and look at what we cannot bear to look at, something inside us changes. This is not a fixed acceptance. At the same time, we need to open ourselves to the ghosts we fear and confront our love for them.
We can never abandon someone for whom we feel anger. Anger, like love, is a binding relationship.
We actually discover ourselves in every relationship we establish with others. The need we feel for each other is the need to discover the parts of ourselves that we do not own in our own individuality and the need for our own integrity. In fact, we relate to ourselves through the other. We learn to love and protect all the aspects of ourselves that we suppress, hide and undiscovered. When we are individuals who have reached their integrity, we Our addiction to e-commerce will decrease, perhaps even disappear completely. Then love ceases to be a need or addiction and acquires a new quality. Two things are necessary for us to develop: to challenge the difficulties of close relationships by realizing that we need someone else, and in doing so to expand our understanding and love beyond the known dimension of the relationship.
There is only one way to lasting happiness. : Does my happiness depend on the outside, on whether the outside world fulfills my desires, or does it sprout from within? My happiness will be temporary if it depends on the outside world; if it is a natural quality of my being, it is uniquely mine.
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