Today, families complain that their children do not know how to make do with less. The dissatisfaction behavior seen in children appears due to wrong parental attitude. Parents say that their children are insatiable and complain that they cannot make them happy. However, sometimes parents can harm their children while trying to do good things. Children of foster families who cannot set limits for their children and where everything is child-centered may experience dissatisfaction over time. If appropriate wishes are fulfilled within limits, children can learn to be happy rather than insatiable.
The biggest factor in children being insatiable is that families do not set limits on the child's wishes. What is meant by setting limits is what the child can and cannot do and what appropriate behavior is. The boundary helps the child gain internal discipline. However, no child likes to have limits set for him/her. Because from the child's perspective, border means restricting the child's freedom and depriving him of his wishes. However, the limit indicates whether the child's behavior is acceptable or unacceptable.
In order to raise happy children, parents must be able to empathize with them, understand them, and point out and teach their children that absolutely everything has a limit.
Family. He/she must regulate his/her authority over the child well. When necessary, the child should be told "no" and the child should be accustomed to this situation. It is normal to experience difficulties in the beginning, but by making progress step by step, the child can adapt to this situation over time.
Mother and father should have a clear attitude towards the child and be consistent. If one parent says yes, the other parent must comply. The child should be prevented from being spoiled by his/her close circle and parents should be able to establish a control mechanism over the child.
The family should give certain responsibilities according to the child's age and structure. It is necessary to reward the child after completing these responsibilities. In this way, the child will not get used to the ease of obtaining something. While rewarding the child; The dose of appreciation and reward should be well adjusted. Because if the child does If a positive behavior is appreciated more than it is, this situation will have a negative reflection on the child.
There should be constant communication with the child and the child's wishes should be listened to, a middle ground should be tried to be found.
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