Attachment means the development of a healthy emotional bond formed with the first interaction with your caregiver. What is it like to have a safe base in times of stress, a safe foundation for exploration? These are the building blocks of our development in adulthood. Did my parents notice me? Did they understand and meet my needs? Was I emotionally and spiritually safe? Have we been allowed to explore?
We may have bonded to our parents as secure, anxious and avoidant in the first period. If we do not have a loving parent, if they did not understand our needs, if they rejected us, if they were angry, if they were scary, if they did not play with us, if they did not touch or kiss us, what happens in our adulthood? . Let's see what kind of caregiver we had in our childhood and what we experienced. What happens when we cry or get scared? What did we do when we were in trouble? Let's go back to today... How did these experiences affect us in our adulthood? In fact, this is a situation that is passed on from generation to generation and continues in vicious circles. For example; Intense anxiety exists due to family reasons. Of course, culture has a lot of importance and culture is our family's family. If our family has a disease in our family, the whole family struggles with the same disease.
It is actually the intuitive side of women that keeps them alive despite many difficulties. For example; A girl is born and from the moment she is born, she is taught to be kind, polite and intellectual within learned patterns. And as he grows up, this person tries to fit into these molds in order to be accepted by society and his family. What kind of person did this girl actually want to be? Who is actually there? It begins to take shape beyond self-acceptance to how others will accept it. In more Eastern cultures, we see people who do not accept gender identity due to the importance given to the male child or the mother's excessive interest in the male child. This is most evident in adolescence. Not wanting to menstruate, hiding your breasts, refusing to grow, etc. It has to do with integrating with their own identity. As women are subjected to implicit pressure, they lose their freedom. Their communication with their instinctive intuition begins to break down. He lives half ruined. But they always tend to emerge intuitively. patterns a Sometimes rejection is like rebellion. When women, who were raised to keep up with and accept the way women are perceived, live in the circle of pregnancy, breastfeeding, growing up and giving birth, their end-of-day fatigue makes them depressed and tired over time. That woman cannot experience end-of-day fatigue after creating, producing and striving, and their mood becomes increasingly depressed until she reconnects with her instinctive intuition. He does not say, 'What a beautiful thing it is to live!' All women are listeners, encouragers, dreamers, suggestors, observers and creators. However, over time, due to pressure and upbringing, they lose touch with their intuition and begin to feel inadequate and worthless, as if they lack them. This is where connection comes into play. If you grew up with parents who were not curious about your intuition, creativity and who you are, and who only gave advice, blamed and criticized you instead of accompanying you on your life journey, you may have lost touch with your intuition and existing power. severing his relationship with the power within him; It makes you feel tired, helpless, fragile, depressed, confused, afraid, silent, lifeless, angry, meaningless and suppressed. A person who does not insist on her own pace, who is afraid of being alone, who is afraid of holding her tongue, who feels in many negative situations such as being afraid of trying the new, means that a woman is far from natural and natural, because a woman is life-giving, creative, and has innate coping power. Women who wear fake dresses and pretend to fit in, even though they don't actually feel good in them, are moving away from their nature. Women by nature should engage in creativity. Every time you nourish your soul, we ensure its development. It thrives and develops thanks to a clear vision and self-integrity. Accessing the deepest knowledge of their instinctive lives frees them and enables them to see their true selves. He must be generous and free. He must allow his own ability to know and his intuition to emerge again. As we accept our soul and past, we become free. What happened to my soul voice? What is my relationship with my instinctual self? When was the last time I spoke freely? When do I make life alive again? When our soul cuts off communication with our own instinctive intuition, it turns into a desert, but it is in our hands to make it flourish. Many of human sufferings This is linked to careless upbringing. This puts corrosive and lethal pressure on us. It disconnects us from our reality. Every woman has her own pure language. Does the sissy want you to be pleasing, or does she want to dress and talk freely? But no matter what dilemma women are in, their minds insist on them acting consciously. We must investigate behind our shadows and ask lots of questions.
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