Happiness is not a matter of becoming, but a matter of decision… It is good that I exist, it is good that I live, it is good that I can see these beautiful things, it is necessary to decide first. A person can be happy only by making a decision in a place where he knows that everything will end in the end…
In some periods, we may act like a creditor from life, but we must not forget that life does not try to make us happy. The person who will embark on this effort and this search is none other than us.
We find the deepest example for this subject in nature again: the sun rises every day and the moon comes out every night, but we know that it is not for us! Whether we want to be born or dating, whether we want it or not, whether we are happy or not, everything will continue as it routinely knows. Then you will make the decision…
Is IT SO EASY TO MAKE THIS DECISION?
Happiness is a relative concept…
Happiness can be, perhaps, wanting something other than what exists, or waiting for the deficiencies of the existing to be completed immediately and become suitable for our wishes. In fact, almost everything in life is lacking. While the first choice may be to pursue what is not and not see what is, or to grumble and whine, the conscious choice is; Realizing this truth as soon as possible and seeking happiness in existing and potentials.
Although there is no clear formula for happiness; There is a beautiful cycle between searching for oneself, finding the essence in oneself, and sharing what is found with the environment in the most correct way. Although it is difficult to get out of comfort zones, the price of development and happiness are concepts that must be paid to a certain extent. What I mean by price is actually closely related to your time, the material and moral investments you make in yourself, your communication with your environment, and your being a researcher and developing person. The same mind, the same eye that looks at the world with the state you feel unhappy with can be blind to happiness...
You will be more likely to see the area you are in the same without changing the angle you look at, the window.
Creating daily life routines, nurturing the mind (research, reading, etc.) Situations such as writing, drawing, telling, watching…), nourishing the body (sports, exercise, breathing exercises, regular-healthy diet…), social environment changes can enrich and nourish your perspective on life. lyre.
It should be noted that; The biggest investment a person can make is in himself. Being happy is a choice, choices often involve giving up. Living outside the usual pessimistic order is possible first with the thought and then with the action of the person.
Sincerely…
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