Small fights are bound to break out in any environment where children live. Although we think that this situation may have a negative impact on children; We should not forget that it is also great for their socialization and development of problem-solving skills. When we encounter such a situation, we must act impartially and calmly wait for the steps they will take towards self-discovery.
I would like to give you a few tips that I think will help you with this;
1. “It's over.”
Make both parties feel that you are impartial between siblings and children. This way, neither party will feel supported or excluded. They will see that the authority that will solve the problem is no one other than themselves.
2. "Let's start again and think."
Children who do not receive support from you will say that they are in trouble and start talking about why they are fighting. In this way, they will discover their mistakes, if any, and take a step back. They will learn to stand up for their rights even when they are right.
3. “I don't know what to say.”
While trying to solve the problem, you can tell them what to do with small touches at a point where they do not know what to say. In order to do this, the reconciliation process with each other must be completed. Be aware of this before getting involved in the process. “You can ask for whatever you want again with permission.”
4. “If I encounter this situation again…”
You can talk again about what they should do if they experience the same situation again. In this way, they will categorize the problems they experience and learn how to react.
5. “My mother and father love us both.”
They need to know that their mother and father's love is permanent, no matter what the circumstances. Because love does not change depending on the situation. However, in such situations, children may think that their parents do not love them. You must make children feel that this is not possible.
“Children kneaded with love will be healthy individuals of the future.”
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