I must confess that there is a group of patients with whom I have difficulty empathizing and establishing healthy communication: neither hallucinated, disorganized schizophrenics (a form of schizophrenia with a poor prognosis) nor excited manics (manic-depressive patients who become aggressive), on the contrary, they are mentally healthy. , adults who are intelligent but have not survived adolescence.
In principle, I refer adolescence patients aged 16 and under to my friends who are experts in child-adolescent psychiatry. However, when I am alone with my patients, who are no different from an adolescent despite being in the adult age group, I generally observe this imbalance: "I should not take responsibility, but I should be given all my rights."
My 25-year-old female patient says, "If When he started shouting, saying "If they gave birth to me, of course they will take care of me until I die", his father stood in front of him with his hands on the sofa and said with a tearful expression: "Sir, no matter what we do, we cannot make him happy, we cannot pay the debts he has made, his mother and I have become his slaves, he tortures us if he does not want." " he said. The picture was deplorable. This meeting was the last meeting between the three of us, because when I told him that "he had the responsibilities he had to take in response to the rights he wanted", my patient shouted at me and left my room. over time and discipline problems hurt us in the future. We give a room to the child who does not clean his room, unlimited pocket money to the child who does not know how to manage money, the latest model mobile phone and unlimited internet to those who do not know how to use it responsibly, branded clothes to those who do not know their value, expensive gifts to those who do not know how to thank them... but we do not ask for the responsibilities they need to do to deserve them in return.
We regretfully observe that these young people do not take any responsibility in their business life, marriage, social life and civic duties. Definitions such as “ATM teller”, “Fuck your salary”, “irresponsible/neglecting spouse”, “individual who does not take responsibility”, “person who evades taxes and says the state should do everything”, “may the snake that does not bite me live a thousand years”… Seeing and feeling sorry for self-centered individuals who have adopted a motto for themselves We are.
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