Former football player David Beckham, who never leaves his children with him at every invitation he goes to, kissed his daughter Harper on the lips during his holiday in Tanzaya and boasted about it on social media.
This photo of the exemplary father, who came to the fore by knitting a baby dress for his daughter, was shared on social media. It received 2
million likes in the media.
The father, who went on vacation to Tanzaya, summarized the sexual
education given to families by all the psychologists, pedagogues and psychological counselors, as well as the abuse and privacy education.
With a single photo.
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This is not a healthy expression of love!
Last month, Victoria shared a photo on social media while kissing her daughter on the lips at Harper's birthday party. However, despite all the criticism, both celebrities still remain silent.
This should not be the way of expression of love in children.
Children Code Every Touch They Receive to Their Body!
You have become corrupt in this evil world. Don't say, 'I love my own child the way I want!'
Children start coding every touch they receive on their bodies when they are only nine months old.
This situation was discovered, especially since the lips are one of the regions with the highest number of neurons in the brain. br /> It also causes the feeling to be permanent.
When a mother or father kisses their child on the lips and smiles at him, the child interprets this as "good, pleasant" or "bad,
wrong". codes it into your mind. It is absolutely true that his parents learn everything first, the child never thinks otherwise, does not even think that it could be wrong.
If this situation becomes normal for the child, why would it be wrong when someone else does it?
A child who is kissed by his/her parents at a young age matches the behavior with the emotion and sends it to the subconscious as "lip kissing behavior - feeling of joy". Even if he encounters a stranger in the future, he knows the feeling that this behavior will create and the possibility of being able to "say no" to him decreases. On the contrary
when your child wants to kiss you on the lips, you should teach him/her how to say "no" by saying "no." Make sure to teach your children that you are a child.
The way you love your child affects his/her future sexual life!
Perhaps you will be surprised to hear, but the touches you make on your child's body may affect your child's sexual life in the future.
It can affect. Petting, biting, or even licking your child by squeezing his/her legs brutally while changing his/her diaper may lead to libido disorder, sexual
obsessions, etc. in your child in the future. It causes sexual abnormal behavior. He is looking for those happiness codes that he subconsciously sent in his sexual life
in his sexual partner. He is looking for the excitement he felt when you were biting and squeezing his legs
when he was little. For example; Opening the gap between your legs and smiling at the little child with your big head, biting him/her and laughing again, indicating that you are enjoying it, codes the child's subconscious mind that these kisses are positive, enjoyable and desired. Kissing the child on the mouth and butt during the oral period, when he/she tries to get to know everything by mouthing everything that cannot be communicated even with the tongue
may cause him/her to be aroused at an early age and cause him/her to experience sexual drive disorders in the future.
When he is little, he is very You were small, we were quite big and strong. When the child becomes an adult and cannot find the power you exert on him/her in a single person, we may encounter an obsessive sexual life. That's why many treatments related to sexual development are analyzed with psychoanalysis, because the subconscious is an important data source for us.
What Should We Do?
Privacy education begins when every child is born. .
Designate a special area for your child. When he wants to scratch or look at his private parts, let him go to that area under your
control.
Teach him that he must enter your room with permission.
Teach him that he must keep the toilet door closed.
Do not touch the child's private areas. (You can't kiss on the mouth because you eat from there. You can turn the words into a game with rhythm.)
Never use the genitals as a game object. Male mothers, while changing the child's diaper, do not laugh while playing with sexual objects in front of their loved ones. The child touches every touch It codes as follows.
Define a special place for the child. Always change their clothes privately in the same place.
Make sure to separate their bed from their parents and siblings.
Teach them to say no. For example; If someone you don't know comes to you and asks "Should we go swimming?", you should say no.
etc. Protect your child against dangers that may come from outside.
Be empathetic so that he can share all his secrets with you and ask questions arising from his sexual curiosity. Remember, abusers may be threatening them or they may be confidant
with your child.
Believe your child. He may think that you won't believe him if he tells you about the incident.
Assure your child that he will always be safe with you and believe him.
Believe me, children never lie about this.
>Enjoy.
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