Was it labor in your opinion?
So, love or affection?
How many times have you fallen in love? How many times have you loved? While some people can fall in love at any time and day, some have never experienced love in their lives, maybe they have not noticed it.
Is it love or affection that is felt first? So which one is the last thing we have left? These questions have been a matter of curiosity for years and many studies have been conducted on them. As a result, some general data were obtained. Evaluations were made based on the duration, continuity, differences and similarities of emotions.
Love is a deeper and more passionate feeling than affection. It is exciting but short-lived. Logic is rarely found in love. Everything is done blindly for the person one falls in love with, reasoning is disabled. It's a pretty wonderful feeling in moderation.
How long does love last?
Although there have been debates on the lifespan of love for a long time, what is known is that passionate love decreases over time. Research has shown that the lifespan of love is 2-3 years. Dopamine, noradrenaline and phenylethamine, which are necessary for love, are gradually decreasing. Over time, the mistakes of the person you fall in love with begin to become apparent. In fact, the person who is in love does not change, the person who is in love begins to evaluate it within the framework of logic. In this case, two options appear before the person; Your love ends or turns into love. If the relationship continues, endorphins come into play and feelings such as peace and trust are added to the relationship.
What replaces love over time is Love. If Love cannot be replaced by Love, it means that the relationship has come to an end. Affection is the feeling that comes after love and forms the basis of long-term relationships. Love is something that requires care, is serene, aware and satisfying. Love is what makes relationships work. You move forward with the respect, trust and faith you have in your partner.
How do we choose that person? The answer to this question has been sought and wondered for many years.
In fact, people choose their spouses from people who are similar to themselves. According to the results of a study, it was determined that in tests regarding mate selection, people generally tend to choose those who look like themselves among the photographs shown to them with faces in them. He remembers his own past in his personality choice, as well as in appearance. People who talk are preferred.
Being able to trust someone means being sure of what they will do and what they will not do. Dedication to someone means being there even in the most difficult moment. Similar or common values, beliefs, thoughts mean harmony. A relationship that includes these means there is love and a long future awaits such a couple.
Are there no problems or will there ever be? Of course, there will be love and affection. When you can become a "We" while preserving your "I", you can start to solve problems. Couples who confront the "PROBLEM" rather than each other will emerge victorious from this situation.
In summary..
Love makes your head spin, but love makes the whole world spin..
Wishing you to return to the world..
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