Once again on a Sunday morning, I would like to open my laptop urgently and tell you, my valued readers, an observation. Today, I am here again with my article that will change what you know and make you question yourself and the other party many times.
Most people want their table, private and belongings to be known, however, as the mind and intelligence develop, the DESIRE TO BE KNOWN decreases. While undeveloped intelligences glorify themselves by making others jealous by showing off their possessions, developed intelligences direct their exaltation towards knowledge and truth
Well, this is the DESIRE TO BE KNOWN, Most of us say that famous people are more attractive. We are interested in them in this regard and even follow their clothing and lifestyle exactly. According to research, women/men say that they find mysterious people, that is, people who have no desire to be known, more attractive in relationships. People who have no desire to be known are, in today's words, cooler and calmer. These types of people do not give importance to matter, they see people mostly in details.
Usually, their partners look at them as if they are going to pull a rabbit out of the hat at every date. At the same time, they make big plans in their minds and obey the patience and time to implement them. In order not to make their business difficult, they do not give information to anyone, and they take their steps very firmly and carefully. This is not because of their excitement, on the contrary, it is because they act relaxed. The feeling of excitement is their biggest card.
The loss of the sense of EXCITEMENT causes interpersonal monotony in the relationship over time. Relationships that continue with a kind of numbness and simplicity end suddenly and quickly. In fact, this is where the desire to be known comes into play. If we keep the desire to be known in our relationships, we will avoid monotony and simplicity and always keep our partner committed to the relationship. In fact, this is what we all want, for him to always love us, hug us and kiss us like the first day. Doing this may seem strange or boring to your partner at first. But it has a great benefit in terms of making the relationship long and passionate in every sense. Even though it may seem difficult and challenging for some, be sure that the more you experience and experience the "desire to be known", the more valuable it will actually make you a person with a higher level of self-esteem. You can. As your partner's interest in you increases day by day, he will make you feel this and even your relationship, which was broken or continued while you were married, will flare up even more. The desire to be known is actually a form of behavior, not a character. Another point that should be taken into consideration here is that the following message should not be given to the other person: Behaviors such as "I make every surprise" or "I am the body, limbs and arms of the relationship, I am not a must" may mislead us by our partner. Therefore, it will be in your best interest to be as sensitive as possible.
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