In our age, there have been many changes and transformations in our family structure, as in many areas. The millennium age has brought a lot of chaos and confusion to our lives. The structure, functioning and gender roles of the family have changed. Some families have adapted to this situation, while others have resisted change because they do not want to disrupt their traditional family structures.
In accordance with family law, spouses are expected to live together for a lifetime, in good times and bad times, to raise happy children in a happy family environment as accepted by society, and to ensure the succession of the generation. tries to keep it going. Cheating means that one or both spouses are having a secret affair with a partner outside of marriage. More clearly, we can define cheating as when one or both parties in a relationship establish an emotional or sexual relationship with another person.
So, how do people who are unfaithful feel?
- A person's self-esteem may decrease. .
- He/she may have thoughts such as 'I can't be the same person anymore, I'm not the same as before'.
- He/she may feel feelings of guilt such as 'What mistake did I make that this happened to me?' He may see his partner's cheating as his own fault.
- The cheated person's bond with other people may be broken or diminished.
- He may feel anger towards the cheating spouse, the person he cheated on, and himself.
- Feeling of inadequacy, hopelessness and depression.
- They may feel indecisive about whether to continue or end their marriage.
- They may experience anxiety about how their children, if any, will be affected by this situation and how their children will be affected by this situation in the future.
- They may feel unsuccessful in maintaining the relationship.
As a result of infidelity, some couples decide to divorce, while others continue their marriages. Many factors are taken into consideration when making this decision. In both cases, it is necessary to get psychological support. Couples who continue their marriage can consult mental health experts who work on the subject in order to make their marriage happier for both parties, and couples who separate can adapt to their new lives and change the effects of their situation.
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