Term tantrums in children can generally be seen more frequently between the ages of 1.5-4.
During a tantrum, the child; He may exhibit behaviors such as yelling, screaming, crying, hitting, kicking, hitting his head, throwing himself on the ground.
The 2-year-old period is known as the child's stubbornness-contradiction period. This period is a part of normal development and is described as the period of autonomy. During this period, children constantly want to explore the outside world and may insist on individualization and independence.
WHAT CAUSES ANGER IN CHILDREN?
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In order to reduce anger, it is an important step to first know where anger originates. There may be many different reasons for anger in children.
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Especially young children may exhibit anger behaviors because they still have difficulty expressing themselves. Not being able to express their wishes and thoughts can create stress for them.
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Children who constantly see angry behavior from adults in their families can also become extremely angry. Children who see their parents constantly arguing are more likely to have this problem.
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For this reason, attention should be paid to the conversations and behaviors in the presence of children. Children can pay more attention to and reflect on some things beyond what we think.
''First of all, as a parent, I must keep my own anger and reaction under control so that my child can see this and take it as a role model.''
WELL..
HOW SHOULD FAMILIES ACT DURING THIS PERIOD?
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First of all, wait for your child to calm down. There is no point in talking when you are both angry. It won't work. If you use violence in some way, the child will start to do the same to you or others. Remember..
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He does not listen to you in times of anger, prefer to have only physical contact without talking.
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Never use a technique such as reward, punishment or waiting-thinking area.
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With love,
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