Now let's stop and think, or just keep thinking! From the very beginning, we had countless goals that we determined what would happen until today. These goals were sometimes achieved, and sometimes they slipped out of our hands like a piece of ice, at a level we thought was a hair's breadth. And we could only wave to them from afar! Let's look at what we have now and think about how and with what difficulties we came to possess an object that we could not have before?
Today, I would like to talk about the word that has become the biggest problem I see in our society. Gather together then, community! I'M BORED... Well, then, it's time to examine this word a little more both telescopically and microscopically. Today, I wanted to explain to you the causes of boredom by applying it to our relationships on this Sunday morning. Our relationships may not always go the way we want, and there may even be a time when we take a break due to boredom. Is this because we are actually tired? Those who say yes on this issue are really wrong. These are the simplest and most lie-filled words of those who want to end their relationships. People say they are BORED today, not because they don't know what they want in a relationship, but because they don't know how to want it. Why do we not see in the newspapers or on TV that a Himba woman in Africa says, "I'm bored, we should live in the city life anymore?" Five by five everywhere! Why can we spend our desires and desires so uncontrollably? Maybe because it's free? I even raised my finger for you. It seems that we have come not to an age where desires and desires cannot be satisfied enough, but rather to an age where they are not satisfied enough. The fact that our desires are at such a space speed is enough to say I'M VERY BORED. Where are the pleasures and passions, where are the excitement, where are the curious waits? It seems that the mistakes we adults make will never end. What is important is our children, let's talk about how they are affected by the craze.
It is not right to blame the children themselves for their attitudes and behaviors. I would like to tell you about an observation I made recently regarding the subject. This finding was about the entry of some women into business life with increasing education levels and, as a result, the decrease in the value and self-care given to children. Use most often This situation was already confirmed in the surveys I conducted on Instagram, the social network we follow. Children sometimes prefer to remain silent to cover up our mistakes and cover them up. The result of a simple toy or a chocolate that we buy for our children under the name of "Quality Parenting" in the late hours due to the increasing work tempo and financial difficulties can be VERY BORED. Or that question that we planned for them at the end of the year and then asked with tanned skin just to get approval: "How was the holiday?" And after a short while, maybe even before you get out of your car after the holiday, the child's angry looks and staring at the surroundings begin. The traumas he has experienced have taught him that he will again go to bed alone and take care of himself. When you ask him the reason for these angry looks, he has only one answer: "I'M SO BORED". This time, he devalued you and showed what you did as a big zero. Isn't it a pain? The countless pleasures and passions experienced show that they do not only affect dissatisfaction. Sometimes, when people feel worthless, they can devalue the other party in the same way. Even if it's the closest person we didn't expect. So, let's not devalue ourselves or others in order to avoid saying "I'm bored." Should the only thing we devalue be the mouthfuls of laughter we make to get rid of our pain? Let it be.
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