Being a woman.... the journey of being a woman begins with pink clothes before you are born, and you must be well-behaved so that no one will criticize you, you must help with the housework, you must learn to cook, you must be able to clean your house, you must not be angry, you must be constructive, you must be respectful and take your time. By the way, you must also be successful academically. As you grow, new roles are added to your role repertoire. For example, being a good wife, a good mother, a good daughter-in-law, not neglecting your husband, your child, your home, being thrifty and saving money, being well-groomed and caring so that your husband does not look outside, and being good at your job. continues with sentences.
Everyone expects beautiful things from women, which should always happen. The problem is: we cannot be successful in every given role. We cannot perform well enough to make everyone around us happy. Women also have feelings, dreams, plans, wishes and hopes. Even though he forgets many of them in his daily hustle and bustle, there are things he wants or doesn't want to do just for himself. He says he is tired, he is unhappy, he can't spare time for himself, he usually hears his voice himself, but even if he is heard, effective solutions cannot be found. The woman postpones herself. He has already seen this from his mother.
After a while, his unhappiness, reluctance and restlessness begin to increase and he may become more angry or withdrawn. He can't be as well-groomed as before, he doesn't want to. Cooking, cleaning, social relations, sexual intercourse, taking care of the child, completing work on time at work, everything comes together. She gets sick more often and is more touchy.
Many women experience the sadness of spending their lives unhappy and unsatisfied as a result of the choices made for them, but every day, many more women are getting to know themselves better and deciding for themselves what they want and what they do not want. By maintaining self-respect, researching and learning ways to express himself in a healthier way, and acquiring conflict and problem-solving skills, he can look at himself, others and life more positively. She can handle many of her roles to the best of her ability, without perceiving them as a burden, and even with pleasure.
Dear women, let's get to know ourselves first for a happier, more peaceful and more fulfilling life. What we want or what we want Let's decide whether we want to or not. The more clearly we can express ourselves, the freer we are in our decisions. Let's improve our communication skills so that we can express ourselves better. Let's start applying problem-solving methods to our lives so that we can focus on the solution without focusing on the problem. Let's reveal more of the aspects we love most about ourselves so that we can love ourselves more. Let's say "no" when necessary to protect our self-respect. Let's make time for ourselves every day and make ourselves feel that we are valuable. Let's help those who need help every day to remind ourselves that other people are valuable too. Let's learn to look at life positively.
In summary, we can continue the journey of becoming a woman happier, more peaceful and satisfied with our self-knowledge, self-esteem, self-confidence and determination to look at life positively.
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