Women and men experience sexuality differently. First of all, sexual arousal in women occurs slower than in men. Arousal is faster in men. A woman wants caresses for her entire body during lovemaking. As lovemaking progresses, he allows the sexual areas to be caressed, and as orgasm approaches, he allows the caresses in the sexual areas to be prolonged.
On the contrary, men want their sexual areas to be caressed and stimulated even at the beginning of lovemaking. A woman caressing a man's shoulder, waist or back is not enough to arouse the man. The man wants to start lovemaking by directly caressing the sexual areas and continue in these areas. The woman will think of the man as the same as her and will caress the areas she enjoys, not the areas he takes pleasure in. Since the man thinks of the woman as he does, he will stimulate her in the way he likes and is aroused. In the relationship, both genders will act by reflecting the situation they feel to the other person and think that the other person will like it very much.
If both genders know this difference mentioned above, they will apply the difference to their relationships and the quality of satisfaction in the relationship will increase.
Generally, women avoid expressing their sexual desires. For example, he/she expects this request to come from his/her spouse. Even women who communicate very easily state that they have to wait for the desire for a relationship to come from their husbands. Women explain this situation as follows: "My husband can misunderstand me in every situation. When I do the things I learned by reading, he gets unduly jealous, asking if you learned these from your previous experiences. If I remain unresponsive as if I didn't know anything, he criticizes me by saying you don't understand anything either."
In various studies, women have stated that they want foreplay to be longer during sexual intercourse and to hear more beautiful words during lovemaking.
Studies on sexuality recommend that foreplay in women be kept long. It is important for both genders to make sexuality high-quality and extend the duration of pleasure.
In foreplay, love games and touching should be emphasized. Woman A difference is also observed in sexuality, especially after orgasm. After a woman reaches orgasm, her sexual sensitivity continues for some time after orgasm. Once a man reaches orgasm, his sexual arousal ends. The man now loses his sensitivity and can often fall asleep even after a very enthusiastic orgasm. Many women express their complaints about this situation as "my wife immediately turned around and fell asleep after orgasm", stating that they are angry and hurt at their husbands because of this situation. They state. This situation is not acceptable or understandable for the woman whose sexual sensitivity still continues after orgasm. After such a pleasurable and tremendous sexual intercourse, the woman waits for a while to talk to the man, chat, or for his man to hug her, touch her, caress her, and tell her with nice words that he enjoyed the relationship very much.
In this regard, both the man and the man wait. If women and women knew that this sexual difference comes from creation, they would not be angry with each other. The woman should know that this behavior of the man is not a disrespect towards her and that it is a situation that results from the end of sexual sensitivity in all men from the moment of reaching orgasm. If men knew that a woman's sexual sensitivity still continues for a while after she reaches orgasm, they could hug their partner or hold her hand affectionately after a good, albeit difficult, intercourse.
Another difference is that the number of orgasms in men is limited. Women, on the other hand, can reach multiple orgasms in a row during intercourse. This is another difference that comes from their creation. Women do not think that reaching orgasm is absolutely necessary in every relationship. Sometimes hugging a man and feeling his warmth can be satisfying for them. Although orgasm in men is visible and ejaculation occurs in women, the man may not understand whether the woman has orgasmed or not because it is not visible. Sometimes women may actually fake orgasm in order not to upset their partners, to speed up the relationship, or to end it as soon as possible. Sometimes this is healthy, sometimes it is a way of escape. In the 60s, sexual revolution and hippie philosophy were widespread In ancient times, it was said that the most appropriate situation was for men and women to reach orgasm at the same time. Sexual therapists now say that it is not necessary for men and women to orgasm at the same time.
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